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We got the engagement announcement via email: Cara Pierce will be
marrying Marc Sodl. Yet another AE coupling.
I’m starting to think Cupid is perched on top of the sign over the Copy
Center door, shooting his arrows at unsuspecting students. Based on the number
of marriages happening among our students and alumni, it may behoove the
Department to open up a wedding chapel.
When I first began researching this article, I counted 25 or so AE couples.
However, as I began to contact couples, they began to contact other AE couples
that I hadn’t known about. Suffice it to say, there are a lot of AE marriages
out there!
It would be safe to say that most couples met in the classroom, like Jim and
Joyce Stephens or like Michael and Elizabeth (Ebner) Weigand, who met in
Professor Kummer’s intro to building materials class. Others, like Jeff and
Johanna Harris, met outside the classroom.
“I met Jeff at the beginning of spring semester during our second year at
school,” Johanna says. “I was waiting with a friend of mine in a drop/add
line. He was waiting behind us. We started talking, and he told us he was a
second-year AE. We didn’t believe him because we had never seen him before.
Turns out he was never very big on attending class on a regular schedule.”
Or as Jeff points out, “She didn’t pay much attention to anyone except
for herself and her friends who sat up front and raised their hands to answer
questions.”
Karen (Miller) Gleba still isn’t sure if Jimmy Gleba was noticing her on
the day they met. “I was working in Hammond on a AE 222 project with some of
my AE girlfriends,” she says. “Jim, who was new to Happy Valley, was walking
down the hall with another AE. As they walked by, Jim exclaimed, ‘Who are
those hot chicks?’ To this day, I don’t know if he meant me or my
girlfriends.”
Karen and Jim’s relationship blossomed like that of many other AE couples.
Instead of “real dates,” they got to know each other by hanging out together
doing homework and projects or by becoming very good friends. David Komonosky
says that after meeting Jeannine Fisher, the two of them hung out together until
he went off to Leeds in his 4th year. Jim and Joyce Stephens both
served on the Association of Residence Hall Students, as well as going through
their AE classes together. Johanna Harris, however, said that she and Jeff did
have a first date. She asked him to go out with her right after an AE 308 exam
during their third year. “The exam was so mind boggling,” she said, “I’m
sure I had no idea what I was doing.”
Jeannine Fisher didn’t ask David Komonsky out after an exam. Instead, she
tracked down David in Leeds and sent him “The Letter” that changed their
relationship. David says, “This is all before the existence of email, mind
you. Jeannine was in hot pursuit, and David knew he could escape the whole
brains and beauty thing. Besides, who else could build balsa wood models, cook
gourmet meals, and turn heads on College Avenue all at the same time?”
Jeannine went to Leeds the following year, but despite the long separations, the
two managed to create a thriving relationship.
Apparently, Cupid’s arrow goes beyond the halls of the Engineering Units,
but into the workplace as well. Karen Miller and Jim Gleba both accepted jobs at
Leach Wallace after graduation. Karen says, “After working together for about
8 months, we were at a fun party with our AE crowd, and we both sensed a change
in our relationship. Maybe it was the growing maturity, maybe it was the
Yuengling, but the rest is history.”
Perhaps it is the camaraderie that comes from being AE classmates, but
working together seems to be a common thread among the AE couples. Jim and Joyce
Stephens worked at the same construction companies and at times on the same
projects until the birth of their son, Jay, when Joyce became a stay-at-home
mom. Jeff Harris recently left Ellerbe Beckett to join Johanna at Hammel Green
and Abrahamson. Michael and Elizabeth Weigand have gone into business together
to operate Weigand Assoc., Inc.
Karen Gleba advises graduating AEs to be “very aware of who takes a job
with the same company – you may end up waking up with them for the rest of
your life.” The way Cupid strikes around here, I’d revise Karen’s advice
to be very aware of who sits next to you in AE 310 or AE 221 or at the donut
table on Thursday mornings.
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